The ABCs and 123s of Divorce: A Simple Guide to Starting Strong

Blog Post 2: The ABCs and 123s of Divorce

Divorce isn’t easy, but having a clear, grounded starting point can make it less overwhelming. At The Law Office of Kristen Bishop Ames, we understand that the legal process is only one piece of the emotional puzzle. Whether you’ve just decided to separate or you're still weighing your options, these simple “ABCs and 123s” can help you begin with confidence and clarity.

The ABCs of Divorce

A = Ask Questions Early

Don’t wait until you’re overwhelmed with paperwork to get the clarity you need. Schedule a consultation early on to ask questions about your rights, the process, and what to expect. An early understanding can prevent costly missteps later.

B = Be Organized

Divorce involves documentation, including financial records such as tax returns, pay stubs, investment statements, and other relevant documents. The more organized you are from the beginning, the smoother the process will be, and the better your attorney can advocate for you.

C = Communicate Carefully

How you communicate, especially via text and email, matters. Keep your tone respectful, stick to the facts, and avoid emotional outbursts. Always imagine a judge reading what you send. A thoughtful message today can prevent a conflict tomorrow.

The 123s of Divorce

1 = One Trusted Attorney Can Make All the Difference

Hiring the right attorney early in the process sets the tone for everything that follows. Choose someone who listens, who informs, and who empowers you to make the best decisions for yourself and your family.

2 = Two-Way Communication is Key

If you’re co-parenting, effective communication is essential. Keep it two-way, don’t just deliver demands. Use clear, consistent methods and avoid using your children as messengers.

3 = Three Things to Avoid at All Costs

• Oversharing on social media

• Procrastinating on important paperwork

• DIY legal shortcuts without professional guidance

These may seem small at the time, but they can have significant consequences: legally, financially, and emotionally.

Divorce is never simple, but approaching it with a plan can make it more manageable. If you’re in the early stages and feeling unsure, you don’t have to go through it alone. At The Law Office of Kristen Bishop Ames, we’ll guide you with compassion, clarity, and a strategy designed around your goals.

Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward your new beginning.

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Remember: Ask questions early, be organized, communicate carefully, and avoid common missteps by starting with compassionate and strategic support.

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