Why Getting It Right the First Time Matters in Divorce and Custody Agreements: Modifications are Costly!

Blog Post #5

Divorce and custody cases can be emotionally overwhelming, which often causes individuals to rush through agreements in an effort to “get it over with.” However, a poorly drafted or incomplete agreement can create challenges in the future, costing you time, money, and emotional energy.

Even with the best intentions to settle matters peacefully and out of court, without a professional's insight, you may risk costly mistakes in the future.

At The Law Office of Kristen Bishop Ames, we believe in building strong agreements from the start. As Kristen often reminds clients:

“A strong agreement now can save you years of frustration later. I’ll help you build it right the first time.”

The True Cost of Fixing Mistakes Later

When an agreement is unclear or doesn’t address future scenarios, problems often surface months or even years later. Modifying agreements typically requires:

• Additional legal fees and court costs

• Mediation or hearings before a judge

• More stress on parents and children

• A longer timeline before issues are resolved

In other words, “do-overs” in family law don’t come cheap.

Why a Solid Agreement from the Start Protects You

Hiring an experienced attorney at the beginning ensures:

• Clear Agreement: Every detail of time-sharing, financial support, and decision-making is spelled out.

• Fairness: Agreements reflect what’s equitable now and anticipate future needs.

• Enforceability: Strong agreements stand up in court if enforcement becomes necessary. Oftentimes, the agreement will spell out who may be responsible for legal fees to enforce portions of the agreement, which will save you money if delineated in the agreement.

• Peace of Mind: By avoiding costly surprises later, you can focus on moving forward.

  
  

Common Pitfalls of Weak Agreements

• Vague parenting schedules that lead to disputes

• Missing details about extracurricular expenses, holidays, or transportation

• Ambiguities in alimony or child support calculations

  
  

A good attorney doesn’t just handle today’s concerns; they help anticipate tomorrow’s challenges.

If you’re considering divorce or a custody agreement, remember: the time to protect yourself is now, not later. An upfront investment in a strong agreement can save years of frustration and expense.

Contact The Law Office of Kristen Bishop Ames today to schedule a consultation and ensure you are making informed decisions about your future.

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